ARGUMENTS LEAD TO FIGHTS
II Tim. 2:23 Again I say, don't get involved in foolish, ignorant
arguments that only start fights. NLT
Fighting over words is
foolishness. Only those who are immature will get sucked into it. Arguing with
someone you don't agree with accomplishes nothing but creating a rift between
you. We get emotional with our convictions and allow our emotions to drive us
instead of our heads. We tend to forget that we will not convince anyone of
anything while they have their defenses up. We dig our heels into the sand and
will not listen when we feel our convictions are being threatened. It is not
our role to convince anyone of the truth. Only the Holy Spirit can do that, and He
can't do that when we have stirred up the pot.
No one has perfect
knowledge, not even you. We now see through a glass darkly. Because of our
limited capacity to understand the things of God, we will always be able to
learn new things. Some things we think we know are refined over time as our
maturity in Christ grows. No matter how well-grounded we may be, we learn new
things as the Spirit works in our lives. He leads us to sometimes change our
thinking on things. So, we need to be careful how much we hold onto in our
understanding of truth. There are some things that are undeniable and true for
all believers for all time, and there are some understandings of truth that the
Spirit changes in us as we grow in Christ.
It is foolish to hold
onto and argue about things that are not clearly spelled out in Scripture. The
Church has been divided over details for centuries and you or I are not going
to settle the issues. We must realize that there are reasons why there are so
many different church bodies worshiping the same Lord we do but in different
ways. If there was no room for different understandings, the Lord would have
fixed it a long time ago.
Wisdom would teach us
to let those things go which are not essential to faith. Hang onto your
convictions with an open heart and mind. Listen to the Spirit if He is changing
your thinking on some things. But, whatever you do, don't be argumentative over
things. It will not change anyone and it will only prevent you from having
godly fellowship with others. Agree to disagree agreeably on non-essential
matters and let the love of Christ bind you together as one to the glory and
honor of our Lord.
Arguing leads to
fighting over words. Fighting causes
divisions in the church. We argue,
fight, and divide over things that don’t matter and it keeps us from fulfilling
our mandate to go into all the world and make disciples—not of ourselves, but
of Christ. As far is it is humanly
possible to do, strive to live at peace with fellow believers and work together
for the glory and honor of Christ until He comes.