We have a problem
that doesn’t go away. We are prone to see the faults in people more than we do
their good qualities. We magnify flaws more than we should. It is easy to see
what’s wrong with others and overlook what is right with them. We do it for a
variety of reasons. Probably the greatest reason is that when we do it, we
forget about ourselves and our flaws. As long as we can point fingers at
others, we can forget how needy we are to change. We live in denial. We think
we are better off than we really are. We think we are justified in comparing
others to ourselves and calling them up short.
First of all, we need to see ourselves for
who we really are before God and not man. How we stack up to others is not even
in the formula. All that matters is how God sees us. He sees our heart and
knows our thoughts. He is never fooled by the way we portray ourselves. The
sooner we accept this truth, the better we are.
We must then confess
to the Lord what He reveals to us. We must not excuse ourselves or let it
slide. We have need of confession for our sins. We have no business looking
down on others because they are sinners when we ourselves are guilty of sin. We
must take the log out of our own eyes before we take upon ourselves the duty of
trying to take the splinter out of someone else’s eyes.
Love dictates that we
mind our own business when it comes to the faults of others. We need to embrace
others in love. We need to focus on the good in them and let the Lord take care
of the rest. If there is something that should be pointed out for someone’s
good because it is the loving thing to do, we should do it prayerfully and
carefully. We should always do it out of love and never with a condescending or
judgmental spirit.
Criticizing others
drives them away from us. No one wants to be around someone who is always
finding fault. The best way to be friendless is to have a critical and
judgmental spirit. If you find yourself with very few friends, perhaps you need
to look in the mirror and take an honest look at yourself as you stand before
God.
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